"physically and spiritually amplifying my “cock-mind”

Dear Seb__I’ve been a big admirer of your work, so I wanted to contribute a few thoughts on cock rings, for your article:

• On one level, you wear a cock ring to maintain your erection by regulating blood flow.  But when I put on a cock ring, I feel like am both physically and spiritually amplifying my “cock-mind”—  intensifying the pleasure and pride of having a cock.  It’s almost like I’m putting a ring  on my cock to really feel married to it.

• I like silicon more, nowadays, because it feels friendlier.  In general, I have been moving away from harder, penetrative scenes, toward softer, more “cooperative” ones.   Cumming soft, after intense play (sometimes including prostate massage), is my new favorite thing— and I find silicon rings work better for those circumstances.    For me, metal cock rings have always been more for public play— bars, sex clubs, and such.

• Size is crucial for the same reason a tailored suit is:  every cock, like every body, is unique.  The right size promotes optimum awareness without being overly intrusive or restrictive.

• Applying the cock ring correctly means focusing your and your partner’s attention effectively onto the “theater of cock”-- which may be small in size, compared with the entire human body, but expansive in scale.  In other words, donning a cock ring puts everyone on alert that our cocks are now the biggest and most important things in the room.

• For a long time now I have been shaving my cock and trimming my pubic area, for just this reason: to focus on the theater of cock.  Of course, cock rings— especially the silicon kind— are easier to use in a trimmed and shaved area.

• It’s always nice then you meet someone with an entire collection of cock-rings.  Sharing them become a lovely extension of sexual hospitality.  A sexual host of true generosity might even have several on hand to give as souvenirs— the way Martha Stewart-type hostesses stock guest bathrooms with new toothbrushes that guests can take away. I hope some of this might be helpful.  I am wishing you the best for your article and, as always, your amazing work. Best, __Steve

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