Cock rings / straps are put on when one is flacid

Hi Seb, As I have a small collection of cock rings I just had to reply to your request for information.

Why I use a cock ring.

1) I have a average to small cock and a cock ring makes my package look larger when I am dressed.

2) A cock ring gives me a harder more sensitive erection.

3) The increased firmness of my erection when using a cock ring makes anal penitration easier and I have been told more pleasurable for my partner.

4) The feeling of stimulation (manual, oral or anal) is different than that without a cock ring.

5) Orgasm when wearing a cock ring is sometimes delayed b ut always intense.

Types of cock ring.

I first used various types of household items as cock ring subsitutes.  Rubber bands, rubber drive belts, velcro straps, metal tubes etc. anything that was tight around my cock when I sliped it over.  After one or two close calls I leaned never to used anything that I could not remove if I had to.

My first real manufactured for purpose cock ring was a silicon rubber type. It was comfortable and easy to get on and off but never really right for me (see importance of size).  I also tried a metal one and had the same problem and it was not comfortable but did look good. I finally got a leather strap which I found to be the most suitable for my needs.  I have since got other leather straps of various designs.

Measuring and size.

As the essence of a cock ring is to constrict the blood flow it has to be the correct size or it will not work.  Too loose and there is no effect, too tight and you are in danger of damaging yourself. I have been told that the correct size is where one can just managed to get your little finger into the ring when it is in place and your are erect. Personally I like it a little tighter.  My first leather strap had several press studs that could be changed to suit the size you required.  This was not bad but i always felt that it could be just a tiny bit tighter or looser.

My favourate leather cockstrap is a plain band with velcro.  This means that I can adjust to exactly the size I want and remove it anytime I want.

A note of caution - 

A cock strap can maintain an erection far longer than is natural - restricting the blood supply to any part of the body is a bad idea. Should you find that you are unable to remove it seek medical advise ASAP no matter how embarrassing it may be.  Overly tight cock rings / straps can cause burst blood vessels and other damage.

Fitting a cock ring.

Cock rings / straps are put on when one is flacid. Velcro straps are easy to wrap around the cock and balls, close and make minor adjustments to position and your erection grows. With a metal or rubber ring, slide it over the penis to the base then pass one ball through the ring followed by the other.  Make sure both balls stay through the ring as one can sometimes slip back out before you get fully erect. I don't use my cock ring all the time, its like any toy, play with it, enjoy it and then put it away when you get fed up with it.

My cock ring still has the lingering aroma of a scented massage oil applied by a talented escort called Seb - happy memories. baz  

I prefer a cock ring, or several, and I love my balls to be pulled HARD. If I\'m into extended masturbation, I'll go for some ass play, and I've recently discovered "sounding"...the insertion of rods down the shaft. It sounds sick. Just wait 'til you try it. no name

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