Queer bi/ choice...

Men are fascinated by their cocks, that's something we all have in common. When showering after the gym or swimming, or even when having a piss in a public toilet we all have a little peep. Even though there may not be any desire for actual contact it's as if the mind has taken a photo of that "erotic image" and can flash back to have another look at any time. We may wonder about what type of sex the owner of the "image" enjoys. We may get sexually aroused thinking about him shagging his wife. That doesn't mean we want to have a gay relationship with him, even though just before you "cumm" you think about putting his cock in your mouth. The fact that i love men doesn't stop me from having occassional sex with women. I am always complemented on my performances. My usual reply is, "well, not bad for a queer". That makes women feel good about themselves. I was always of the assumption that every-one was bisexual. Acknowledge all parts of your sexuality, even the tiny parts. It's part of what makes you, you. If you do not it will damage you. I once had a very old man come to see me. A few months short of his 90th. birthday. He was not going to see that day, he was not well. He had seen a small "ad" of mine in a local newspaper. He had gone through his life always desiring men but had never had the courage to do anything about it. After a while chatting about the war and stuff he looked at me and said, "I've left it too late. Haven't I". I wanted to lie. But I couldn't. The next day I went out and done something that I would not usually have had the courage to do. It had a very profound effect on me seb cox london

Being intimate with another man does not make you queer...But ONLY QUEERS WOULD THINK that being intimate would make you homosexual. It's certainly not what you would discuss with your mates down the pub on a Saturday night. But because of the nature of what I used to do for a living I am very aware that in reality it's alot more common than most str8 men care to admit. For most str8 men it's something they think of while masturbating, or having sex. It remains a very private fantasy. Others will experiment, they will occasionally feel a real need to have physical contact with another man, or simply to touch another man and his cock. Some men are very disturbed by this tiny part of their sexuality and it becomes a very big issue for them. These men often become very loud, very homophobic. So the next time you hear some guy shouting about "queers" and all that, don't be too harsh on him just smile and politely tell him you understand what his problem is. We are told at adolescence that it's NORMAL to  have fantasies about other blokes while wanking. Many of us will have played the jerk-off games with other young men while still at school. Our teenage years are a time of great curiosity. We hang around in gangs. The mates we would like to be similar to will appear more attractive, and at a time of life when everything is interesting and  horny, this emotion can manifest itself as a lovely stiff cock. So if it's ok when we are teenagers, what's wrong with it when we are older. Who sets the fucking agenda anyway! We are told as liberated sexual beings, that swingers for example never allow male to male contact, even if you accidentally bump into another man, it's a fucking distaster. Liberated, yes of course as long his wife doesn't enjoy herself, spiritually, because that would take a man, yes a man that had so much bollox, that he could be comfortable in just touching another man's cock as it slowly slid into HIS wife's pussy. seb cox london

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