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Hi Seb, I have been surfing through your site for a while now and I find it very interesting and helpful. Thank you for it! I am writing to you because of what I consider to be a problem. I enjoy receiving anal sex regularly however, my social life and my work schedule do not allow me to regularly find it available at my fingertips. Anyway, there is a guy that when both of our schedules permit, we fuck....as recently as Sunday. The problem is that when he inserts himself it is very painful and it takes me a while to relax into it. He has to take his cock out and re-insert a few times before I am completely open, comfortable and able to enjoy all of him. This is the case even after a lot of foreplay, some wine, some deep breathes (I practice yoga)...etc. He is relatively large (about 8 x 6)....but this has happen with guys that I been with that are smaller than him....do you have any suggestions? not sure if it is relevant but, I am 5'10...173 lbs..athletic..I run and practice yoga and Pilates. by the way...the next time I am in London...I will be giving you a ring!!  Thanks again.

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