Hello Mate, 

Let me start by saying their is no rush, there is plenty of time. You must take things at your own pace. Saying that you have to gently move the agenda on. Take a chance, do things that scare you a little, as this will give you a great energy, it's a bit of a circle really. When I was an escort I had several clients who saw "getting fucked" as a therapy. If they are feeling a bit down they go and get well fucked and find this gives them an energy to cope with things, as I said it's a bit of a circle really. But then there's more to men than simply fucking, or getting fucked. Have you thought about taking up a physical discipline, like kick boxing for example? If you are a bit shy you could try a few private lessons before you take part in an actual class. I wish you lots of love and penetration. Seb.

P.s. Remember you need to learn to ride before you learn to be fucked, you need to take contol.

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