A pain in my anus...

"sir i was fucked many times but every time i feel pain in my anus thats why i didnt enjoy it very much plz tell me some thing by using that i should not feel any type of pain. i m waiting for ur response". R_M

I think take it easy, get use to it being in you, and get your guy to pay more attention to how you are feeling, rather then his cock. If you do this his cock will touch the right parts, rather then the hurtful. Also get yourself a dido so you know where it feels right. If I am going to bottom, first thing I do, is ride the horsey, that way I have control, and get use too it. Before laying back. I am in reality tight, and the guy I am with at the moment, well is total top. The first time with him, I knew I be the bottom, he was like a straight guy with a woman, just his pecker gets off on it being in a guy. Anyway he knew I was tight, and didn't wish to hurt me so we took it easy. I find if my cock being stroke, by me or him, any uncomfortness tends to go away. One thing I do like him doing, he likes probes or knocks it at my door(anus), and I can't guess when he going to go in all the way, he just does when I least expect it, I think it is his way of having control, but also making me get use to him. So I not saying anal sex, is well nature, it is usually uncomfortable, but if done right can be really good. Lastly I think take the time to enjoy it, slow it down it not a race. When it gets a little sore, put more lub into the hole (duh), and if getting too sore take it out, remember it not a porn flick, your suppose to enjoy it, not be watching it. Blondshy

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